Post by skuldxx on Apr 3, 2010 16:08:49 GMT -8
I know I don't really know you, but I know that when members greet each other like "THIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIS!!!" it's often because they are friends, they are on a different level of familiarity and closeness then they may be with you. And if they don't always say hi, maybe they didn't see your post. They are most likely having a conversation and are more focused on seeing what that person has said than seeing what other random things people have said or who has come in. Really I've never met a rude member on this site and I've never seen anyone go intentionally ignored. We have our friendships and I know all of us are open to making more :3 Personally I think this is one of the more welcoming sites. When I first joined I think the only reason I started out with HIIII SKUULLDD! was because I personally knew Kazu, otherwise I just got simple 'hi's. Most sites you get a hi, welcome then go ignored. When you say you're confined to the forums, I think Setsu is right. This is a forum. The cbox is just a way to talk. The main part of the Source is to RP, hence it being a 9 RP. I know even now, that I've been part of this forum for a while, I get ignored every now and then. I'm sure it's not intentional, but I understand that people have their focus on other things, they aren't always sitting there refreshing the cbox looking for your reply only. I'm not really a memorable person, I'm not an exception artist, my characters are generally just pretty and nothing more, I've found a great home at the Source. It took a bit to really settle in, and I'm sure you can settle too. And if no one is offering to RP it may be because they are busy, low on muse or are in a ton of other threads already, I know a lot of people are thread-heavy.
As far as I've seen. all you need to have is politeness, patience, respect and a sense of maturity (when needed ;3) and you'll be right at home here <3
As far as I've seen. all you need to have is politeness, patience, respect and a sense of maturity (when needed ;3) and you'll be right at home here <3